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ISLAMIC DATING

Dear brothers and sisters in islam. Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakat. My dear brothers and sisters in islam, this is a reminder that is so dear to my heart, as such for Allah's sake pay heed to it and make steps towards correction if you are guilty and/or advice someone that may be guilty. Again, this reminder is as a result of numerous complaints around us.

It is also as a results of some post i have been seeing on social media regarding how rampant the youth especially when they die without marriage every single day. The situation we have found ourselves in and the nature of society we are living. So please make time and read my next post tomorrow Insha'aAllah.

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