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ISLAMIC DATING

This is a very delicate topic almost every Muslim youth and some aged fall short. "Dating" as seen in the West today is entirely Haram and a no go area to well-mannered Muslim, because dating as defined by western culture is NOT devoid of sex, alcoholism and other vices that are frowned against in Islam. However, can a male and a female Muslim initiate talks before marriage? My answer is YES! Because you need to know each other well enough. Get to know each other's attitude and then initiate marital process. If this is called dating, then i don't see anything wrong with that.

FEAR ALLAH(GOD)
Be mindful of Allah in all your affairs and at the time you talk to each other. Know that you both are under ALLAH'S watch and beware that there shall be a day for reckoning. As soon as you are satisfied with each other's behavior, then go ahead and get married. Introduce him or her to your family and leave all affairs to Almighty Allah.



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