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HOW TO BE A ROMANTIC HUSBAND Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2-year-old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or Silly at times. . You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce,she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say “I am sorry for the argument" . Brothers, when your wife steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly, its not her fault. So why shout at her over every small mistake? . As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty. Some men are feminist; Do "hide and seek" with your wife, sing poems for

IF YOU ARE A WIFE OR WIFE TO BE... PLEASE READ THIS! If you are a wife or when you become a wife, once in a while, look at your husband's face when he is asleep. That is the person who has no blood relationship with you but keeps trying to love you. Once in a while when your husband comes home from work or from his place of business, look at his face, kiss his hand. That is the hand that is working hard to find sustenance to provide you and your children In fact, before the marriage contract he had no debt of gratitude to you. In fact, he has a debt of gratitude to his father and his mother. He chose you before he could repay all his parents' debt of gratitude Once in a while when you are alone with him, look at your husband, look at his face with affection and full of respect. it's the face that's struggling out there, it's the face that's burning in the hot sun, it's the face that holds back the heat of the sun and sometimes ignores hi

*10 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE* Women aren’t the only ones responsible for keeping a home and it’s wrong for people to say that. It’s the responsibility of both partners to keep a home. Here are 10 mistakes men make in marriage *1. THINKING OF YOUR SATISFACTION ALONE IN THE BEDROOM* Most men are selfish in the bedroom and never think of their wife’s satisfaction. Disregarding the needs of your wife in the bedroom can ruin your marriage. Having a good time in the bedroom with your wife requires a very high level of communication and such conversations should happen when both partners are calm, relaxed and receptive to ideas. *2. RECKLESS SPENDING* Making big purchases without consulting your wife or spending recklessly is another big mistake most men make in marriages. Keeping a bank account hidden from your wife is a no-no in a marriage. When you cut off your wife from knowing about your finances, you make her feel less loved and connected. Your wife needs you to

...........INSTAGRAM TODAY........... TO BE FOREWARNED IS TO BE FOREARMED You snap a selfie with your breast open because you want Arewa this & that to post your picture? Toh wallahi the more people share the more sins you get. Repent Alot will like your picture because your cleavage is showing, alot will comment, WOW, HOT, DIVA, but how many do you think will like you as a wife? Why don't you have sense? You are advertising yourself? if you need a husband, is that the proper thing to do? Flashing your eyelashes, squeezing your lips & posting video online? fear Allah Do something Allah will be pleased with, something the Angels will record as good deeds, not something plenty people will like but Allah will hate. If you know your value as a woman wallahi you won't be revealing your breast, shape and long hair anyhow, you are a woman, a mother, a wife, Respect that. You meet a guy online, before you know it, you're already sending your half naked

Hijab  is an Arabic word meaning barrier or partition. In Islam, however, it has a broader meaning. It is the principle of modesty and includes behavior as well as dress for both males and females. The most visible form of  hijab  is the head covering that many Muslim women wear. Today the  hijab  means many different things for different people. For Islamic women who choose to  wear the hijab  it allows them to retain their modesty, morals and freedom of choice. They choose to cover because they believe it is liberating and allows them to avoid harassment. I choose my path as a Muslima, I choose to wear the Hijab, I choose to respect my body shape by Covering the Hijab sent by Allah for the benefit if Mankind. My Hijab is My Swagg, My Hijab is My Beauty, My Hijab is My Identity , My Hijab is My Pride, A hijab in common English usage is a veil worn by some Muslim women in the presence of any male outside of their immediate family, which usually covers the he

*Top 10 excuses by women who don’t wear the Hijab* This list has been compiled after research and is not intended to offend or insult anyone. After reading them it is possible to reach ones own conclusions. *1. FRIENDS WILL REJECT ME* The people I hang around with and really tight with none of them wear hijab/ Jilbaab and they take the mickey out of those that do. Especially the Hijabies who check out boys and do dirty dancing at college. uni parties. Names like fundies, movies, hypocrites and they cover coz they are ugly. If I wear the Hijab then I will lose all my friends and have the piss taken out of me as well. *2. HARM MY CAREER * I worked my ass off to get where I am now in my career. I got a big salary, status and I enjoy the respect I get from colleagues and community. I can’t risk all that for a piece of cloth, besides I would look weird in board meetings and work parties in the pub and nightclubs. Inshaa'Allah when I get married in my 30s and have kids in

*I CHOOSE MY PATH* I cannot be part of a world where men dress their wives as prostitutes by showing everything that should be cherished. * Where there is no concept of honor and dignity, and one can only rely on those when they say *"I promise"* . * Where women do not want children, and men don't want a family. * Where the suckers believe themselves to be successful behind the wheel of their fathers` cars, and a father who has a little bit of power is trying to prove to you that you're a nobody. * Where people falsely declare that they believe in God with a shot of alcohol in their hand, and the lack of any understanding of their religion. * Where the concept of jealousy is considered shameful, and modesty is a disadvantage. * Where people forgot about love, but simply looking for the best partner. * Where people repair every rustle of their car, not sparing any money nor time, and themselves , they look so poor that only an expensive car can hide

*This is a message for every sister, who got married but doesn't have children: dears sister, know that Aysha (RadhyaAllahu‘anha) got married to Prophet Mohammad (SallAllahu Alaihi wa Sallam) in a very young age but she has never had children. *who was divorced*: dear sister, the 2 daughters of Prophet Mohammad (SallAllahu Alaihi wa Sallam) got divorced even though they are the daughters of the messenger of Allah! *Who got married and didn't get pregnant yet*: Remember dear, the first wife and mother of believers Khadijah (RadhyaAllahu ‘anha) got married to Prophet Mohammad (SallAllahu Alaihi wa Sallam) when she was 40 years old and she got 6 children but Saida Aysha (RadhyaAllahu‘anha) didn't has children from him (SallAllahu Alaihi wa sallam) even though she was so young. So there is absolutely a Divine Wisdom behind that.*who didn't get married* *yet and afraid of what* *people may say about her*: don’t worry dear sister, marriage is Rizq from Allah and HE wi

HOW TO CORRECT YOUR WIVES WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS Most men hurt their wives in the name of correcting them. They speak harshly, they are so rash in their approach and can be brutal. Lots of women are living their lives in bitterness and anger due to the careless ways their husbands have been talking to them every time. Here, you will be able to know the right ways to talk to your wife without hurting her. 1.       LOWER YOUR VOICE: Don’t shout at her, she is not your housemaid, she is not a child. You can correct YES, but why shouting at her? 2.       DO IT IN LOVE: Correcting should be done in love. If done in any other way, it turns to criticism and condemnation. 3.       DON’T CRITICIZE: Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say its constructive criticism, true? It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes. Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes. Correction and criticism are never the same. Husband A will say, what

I saw her, I love what I saw and I went for her. I had share a few times about our past, so you may know little. After things started getting serious and beautiful. I planned a move to surprise her; so I told her to meet me at a quite place. I was going to propose to her. Before then I had the conviction that she is the one. It was in the night. The sky was bright and the stars were made for the 'hour'. It was awesome! Not long she showed up; there were so much of 'beautiful exchanges'. While we continue to get along, she decided to 'head up' first. I was so interested to hear her talk about things. The love was new! But My heart discontinued when she broke it to me that she was an asthmatic person and not only that, she was always having this frequent chronic stomach pain that had lasted for 7 years. I remained numbed while she tried telling all. My eyes went blur. Those unwanted 'water' busted to made it so. I could not hide my feelings. She

*TIME IS SOMETHING* She is married at the age of 21. - Oh and I’m still single at 35. She’s momming three kids. - Oh and I am 10 years married and have none. She is a manager in an international company. - Oh, we graduated together and I am still jobless. She travels the world . - Oh and I have never been abroad. Job title, income, grades, house, and Instagram and Facebook  likes—the number of categories in which we can compare ourselves to others are infinite. Where is it expected from you to be a doctor or engineer, get married by 21 and have mortgaged house and 3 kids by 26. RELAX. You’re not LATE. You’re not EARLY. Everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME. Don’t be violent or mean to yourself for no reason other than just because your path is different from the person’s path beside you. Be your own cheerleader. Stop comparing yourself with others and instead refocus all that energy internally and focus on how you can become the best versio

*BED ~ WETTING & GUSL ~ JANABAH* *Rules Regarding Ghusl and Wet Dreams for Men and Women* *Q u e s t i o n s:* (1) I have learned that if a women who has reached puberty has an erotic dream and sees some discharge afterwards, she has to make Ghusl. (2) If she sees discharge alone without remembering a dream, she would also have to take Ghusl. But if she remembers only the dream without seeing discharge, she doesn’t have to take Ghusl. (3) What if a women constantly has discharge? How does she know when to take Ghusl and when not? (4) Can u briefly explain the step by step way of performing Gusl Janabah according to Sunnah? *R E S P O N S E* بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم *With regards to wet dreams, men and women have the similar rulings.* *So, if a man or woman has a wet dream and he/she sees wetness/discharge they are obliged to make Ghusl, even if they are not certain the wetness is from an ejaculation/orgasm. In other words, even if he/she has constant di

Ruling on women spending of their own wealth without their husbands permission      Question I am a working woman, and I have a salary from which I spend on myself and my home, I give some to my family and I give some in charity, and so on. Many of the arguments that I have with my husband arise because of the way I spend my money. Does my husband have the right to object to the way I spend my money? Do I have to ask for his permission when I want to spend any of my money? Answer Praise be to Allah. Undoubtedly the free adult person who is of sound mind and discernment is permitted to dispose of his own wealth with no restrictions as long as he is alive, whether he is buying, renting, giving a gift, establishing a Waqf (endowment) or any other kind of transaction. There is no dispute among the scholars on this point. There is also no dispute among the scholars concerning the fact that the husband does not have the right to object to the way his wife handles her wealth

*EARNING HALAL IN ISLAM*               *The Extraordinary Precautions taken by the Holy Companions against Consuming what is Haram in the Religion of Islam:* The biographers of Sayyidna Abu Bakr Siddique (ra) have recorded that he had a slave. Once he brought some food to him. Abu Bakr took a morsel from it. Later he discovered that the food was Haram. The slave told him that he used to work as a foreteller and a seer in the Days of Jahiliyyah and he had purchased that food from that income. Abu Bakr (ra) said, “You have destroyed me.” Abu Bakr wanted to put his hands into his mouth to vomit out the food but he could not. Some people told him that he might vomit easily if he took water. He sent for water and kept on drinking it and vomiting the food until he had emptied all the food in his stomach and he could vomit no more. Some onlookers commented and said, “Why are you suffering so much for a small morsel of food?” He said, “I will take out this morsel from my stomach even

*Salam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu to you all. *When sister complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess?* The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform poorly. SEX is not an individual responsibility, since both of us engaged equally, Prophet Muhammad, may the peace and blessings of Almighty Allah continue shower on him said.... When making love, do not walk away until you taste her  water and she tastes your water... Meaning... Until you both reach orgasm. He (SAW) said, when a wife engaged in something or beautify herself to attract her husband, Inviting him to bed shall be given 10 rewards, 10 sins wiped and her Daraja will be raised, So dear sisters, if this is the case, definitely we have a big role to play, not by inviting him to bed alone but to helping him last longer in bed and doing the work very excellent.. Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates, Ginger is a power

*DON'T BE TOO PROUD IN A MARRIAGE  RELATIONSHIP.* Once, a man returned from work and found his wife cooking. She gave him a sweet loving  kiss.  They shared   happy  moments while preparing dinner together  . While they were  at the dinner table, the woman's cell received a message from her friend who wished her good night. The husband saw the message and  assumed it was from a man. He got so  upset left the dinner table without talking to his wife and went to  bed without eating dinner. The woman  looked at her husband with disbelief  and  wondered how he could be bothered by a simple message? She said to herself  "this is ridiculous and  I will not go after him..He is not a kid." The woman had her meal and went to bed. She did not speak to the husband and  neither did the husband speak to her..Instead  both of them moved to the furthest corner of the bed and turned  their back on each other. Their night was very miserable. At midnight, the wife  got 

LETS BE SINCERE: Second wife! The words reverberated through my brain. Why? Am I not good enough? Never! I will never accept a second wife! If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back! Those were my words to my husband a few years ago when he mentioned to me that he is intending to marry again a second time. It was a woman recently divorced, 4 children. She is having a hard time, he said, she don't know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. "Where is their father?" I asked, "Can't he take care of his own kids? Why do you a strange man have to carry another man's burden? Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to MARRY her! I could not imagine myself in a plural marriage. Sharing my husband with another woman. Sharing his love, his smiles, his jokes with a woman other than myself. I could not fatho