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This is a message for every sister, Who got married but doesn't have children


*This is a message for every sister, who got married but doesn't have children:
dears sister, know that Aysha (RadhyaAllahu‘anha) got married to Prophet Mohammad (SallAllahu Alaihi wa Sallam) in a very young age but she has never had children. *who was divorced*: dear sister, the 2 daughters of Prophet Mohammad (SallAllahu Alaihi wa Sallam) got divorced even though they are the daughters of the messenger of Allah! *Who got married and didn't get pregnant yet*: Remember dear, the first wife and mother of believers Khadijah (RadhyaAllahu ‘anha) got
married to Prophet Mohammad (SallAllahu Alaihi wa Sallam) when she was 40 years old and she
got 6 children but Saida Aysha (RadhyaAllahu‘anha) didn't has children from him (SallAllahu Alaihi wa sallam) even though she was so young. So there is absolutely a Divine Wisdom behind
that.*who didn't get married* *yet and afraid of what* *people may say about her*: don’t worry dear sister, marriage is Rizq from Allah and HE will surely grant it to when HE wills it and not when you want it. Don’t care of what people may say about you, remember that Maryam (‘Alaiha Salam) never got married and she is the only woman who has a whole Surah with
her name! So if not having a husband is a defect, she wouldn't hav been mentioned in Qur’an! Not
getting married is not a flaw or a defect but not maintaining chastity is. The real defect is that a
woman doesn't preserve her purity and chastity be patient and be sure that Allah will reward you
greatly for your patience, at the end this Dunya is not about men or getting married but about
submitting your will peacefully to Allah and accept what ever HE decrees for you.....

MAY ALLAH GRANT US UNDERSTANDING!!!

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