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HOW TO CORRECT YOUR WIVES WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS Most men hurt their wives in the name of correcting them. They speak harshly, they are so rash in their approach and can be brutal. Lots of women are living their lives in bitterness and anger due to the careless ways their husbands have been talking to them every time. Here, you will be able to know the right ways to talk to your wife without hurting her. 1.       LOWER YOUR VOICE: Don’t shout at her, she is not your housemaid, she is not a child. You can correct YES, but why shouting at her? 2.       DO IT IN LOVE: Correcting should be done in love. If done in any other way, it turns to criticism and condemnation. 3.       DON’T CRITICIZE: Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say its constructive criticism, true? It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes. Correction is the act of offering better options to mista...

I saw her, I love what I saw and I went for her. I had share a few times about our past, so you may know little. After things started getting serious and beautiful. I planned a move to surprise her; so I told her to meet me at a quite place. I was going to propose to her. Before then I had the conviction that she is the one. It was in the night. The sky was bright and the stars were made for the 'hour'. It was awesome! Not long she showed up; there were so much of 'beautiful exchanges'. While we continue to get along, she decided to 'head up' first. I was so interested to hear her talk about things. The love was new! But My heart discontinued when she broke it to me that she was an asthmatic person and not only that, she was always having this frequent chronic stomach pain that had lasted for 7 years. I remained numbed while she tried telling all. My eyes went blur. Those unwanted 'water' busted to made it so. I could not hide my feelings. She ...

*TIME IS SOMETHING* She is married at the age of 21. - Oh and I’m still single at 35. She’s momming three kids. - Oh and I am 10 years married and have none. She is a manager in an international company. - Oh, we graduated together and I am still jobless. She travels the world . - Oh and I have never been abroad. Job title, income, grades, house, and Instagram and Facebook  likes—the number of categories in which we can compare ourselves to others are infinite. Where is it expected from you to be a doctor or engineer, get married by 21 and have mortgaged house and 3 kids by 26. RELAX. You’re not LATE. You’re not EARLY. Everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME. Don’t be violent or mean to yourself for no reason other than just because your path is different from the person’s path beside you. Be your own cheerleader. Stop comparing yourself with others and instead refocus all that energy internally and focus on how you can become the best ve...

*BED ~ WETTING & GUSL ~ JANABAH* *Rules Regarding Ghusl and Wet Dreams for Men and Women* *Q u e s t i o n s:* (1) I have learned that if a women who has reached puberty has an erotic dream and sees some discharge afterwards, she has to make Ghusl. (2) If she sees discharge alone without remembering a dream, she would also have to take Ghusl. But if she remembers only the dream without seeing discharge, she doesn’t have to take Ghusl. (3) What if a women constantly has discharge? How does she know when to take Ghusl and when not? (4) Can u briefly explain the step by step way of performing Gusl Janabah according to Sunnah? *R E S P O N S E* بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم *With regards to wet dreams, men and women have the similar rulings.* *So, if a man or woman has a wet dream and he/she sees wetness/discharge they are obliged to make Ghusl, even if they are not certain the wetness is from an ejaculation/orgasm. In other words, even if he/she has constant di...

Ruling on women spending of their own wealth without their husbands permission      Question I am a working woman, and I have a salary from which I spend on myself and my home, I give some to my family and I give some in charity, and so on. Many of the arguments that I have with my husband arise because of the way I spend my money. Does my husband have the right to object to the way I spend my money? Do I have to ask for his permission when I want to spend any of my money? Answer Praise be to Allah. Undoubtedly the free adult person who is of sound mind and discernment is permitted to dispose of his own wealth with no restrictions as long as he is alive, whether he is buying, renting, giving a gift, establishing a Waqf (endowment) or any other kind of transaction. There is no dispute among the scholars on this point. There is also no dispute among the scholars concerning the fact that the husband does not have the right to object to the way his wife...

*EARNING HALAL IN ISLAM*               *The Extraordinary Precautions taken by the Holy Companions against Consuming what is Haram in the Religion of Islam:* The biographers of Sayyidna Abu Bakr Siddique (ra) have recorded that he had a slave. Once he brought some food to him. Abu Bakr took a morsel from it. Later he discovered that the food was Haram. The slave told him that he used to work as a foreteller and a seer in the Days of Jahiliyyah and he had purchased that food from that income. Abu Bakr (ra) said, “You have destroyed me.” Abu Bakr wanted to put his hands into his mouth to vomit out the food but he could not. Some people told him that he might vomit easily if he took water. He sent for water and kept on drinking it and vomiting the food until he had emptied all the food in his stomach and he could vomit no more. Some onlookers commented and said, “Why are you suffering so much for a small morsel of food?” He said, “I will take ou...

*Salam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu to you all. *When sister complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess?* The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform poorly. SEX is not an individual responsibility, since both of us engaged equally, Prophet Muhammad, may the peace and blessings of Almighty Allah continue shower on him said.... When making love, do not walk away until you taste her  water and she tastes your water... Meaning... Until you both reach orgasm. He (SAW) said, when a wife engaged in something or beautify herself to attract her husband, Inviting him to bed shall be given 10 rewards, 10 sins wiped and her Daraja will be raised, So dear sisters, if this is the case, definitely we have a big role to play, not by inviting him to bed alone but to helping him last longer in bed and doing the work very excellent.. Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates, Ginger is a power...